Remove Blinders, Leave Harbors, and Set Sail...  

Get Comfortable.

In a good way, not in a lazy way.

in uncomfortable situations be yourself.

Relax into your life.

And perhaps, do your best to help make others feel comfortable in certain situations. This will help you instantly relax and become comfortable.

GET COMFORTABLE:

You don't need to be anyone but you.
"Be yourself, everyone else is already taken"- Oscar Wilde

Recently, I've received tons of requests from people looking to "get comfortable" in presenting. Here are a few examples of what I share to overcome their fears.

1. Be YOURSELF- be real, authentic, and perfectly "imperfect"
2. Be CONFIDENT- you have good things to share, your message is worth hearing Usually, no one else KNOWS WHAT YOU ARE PRESENTING except you. If you miss something, no one else will know (or care)
3. Tell "STORIES NOT SNORIES" as people remember stories 22x more than data.
4. Share your content with the audience in mind
5. Focus on making others FEEL COMFORTABLE, engaged, and interested 
   

MAKE OTHERS COMFORTABLE:

Now imagine, you are hosting a meeting/conference for your team. Many of them are new and have never met each other in person. What can you do to make them feel COMFORTABLE?

A friend recently shared this exact situation, and this is what they did to make people feel comfortable:

They arranged the hotel accommodations for him. They sent another colleague to pick him up at the airport. The team provided name badges and place cards so everyone could easily remember names.  They received a bio sheet of the attendees prior with photos and backgrounds. They conducted an "ice-breaker" to reintroduce themselves. They had assigned seating next to new mentors. They gave them free time to rest. They conducted a dining outing in smaller groups in order to be more comfortable for conversations.  

THIS ALIGNS DIRECTLY WITH MY TOP 9 COMFORTABILITY TACTICS:

Here is the HOW TO:

1. Be Authentic
2. Be Empathetic
3. Be Helpful
4. Be Interested
5. Be Interesting
6. Be Kind
7. Be Personal
8. Be Present
9. Be Understanding  

Today's podcast guest features the founder of Pro Tour & Cruises, and Host of the TV Show, Travel Talk with Kasie. With over 30 years of experience, Kasie is a trailblazer in group travel. 

She came up with the idea to feature me on her KINDNESS CRUISE. Truth be told, I've never been on a cruise before.  

From the moment we met, she made the entire cruise experience feel seamless. Her knowledge and guidance removed any uncertainty, making it easy to navigate the world of cruising. With every step, she's there to answer questions and ensure no detail is overlooked.

Together we are tackling all the details to ensure others that join us for the inaugural KINDNESS CRUISE feel extremely comfortable. We will provide "as much or as little" of KINDNESS TACTICS as individually needed.  

Comfortable.

Life enhancing comfortable.

Memories of a lifetime comfortable.

How can you DO YOUR BEST to make others comfortable?  

KEY LESSONS & TAKEAWAYS:

1. Life Is About Creating Meaningful Experiences

• Casey found her calling in travel after realizing the power of designing and facilitating unforgettable experiences.
• Memories last far longer than material possessions—investing in experiences fosters deeper connections and personal growth.

🔷 Application: Focus on collecting experiences, not things. Plan experiences that bring joy to you and those around you.

2. Removing Blinders Opens Up New Possibilities

• Casey grew up in an environment where she was taught a certain way of thinking, but traveling changed her perspective.
• Exposure to different cultures, industries, and people allows for new insights and personal development.

🔷 Application: Challenge preconceived notions by seeking out new experiences, cultures, and ideas. Stay open-minded and embrace lifelong learning.

3. The Power of Taking Action

• Casey’s career took off because she refused to let great ideas sit on the shelf.
• She recognized gaps in customer service in the travel industry and built her business by addressing those needs.
• She took the initiative to turn the Kindness Conference into a year-round effort, leading to the Kindness Cruise.

🔷Application: Don’t wait for permission—if you see a problem that needs solving or an idea worth pursuing, take action.

4. Success Comes from a Strong Support System

• Casey credits her husband, Justin, for supporting her leap into entrepreneurship.
• She emphasizes the importance of having an advisory board of trusted colleagues to provide perspective and guidance.

🔷Application: Surround yourself with a supportive network—whether family, mentors, or peers—who encourage and challenge you to grow.

5. Kindness Is a Business & Life Strategy

• Casey’s commitment to kindness extends beyond personal values—it’s embedded in her business approach.
• The Kindness Cruise was born from the desire to continue fostering positive connections in a meaningful way.
• When you lead with kindness, you naturally attract people who align with your values.

🔷 Application: Incorporate kindness into your daily interactions and business strategies. It builds trust, loyalty, and fulfillment.

The Kindness Cruise – A Movement of Connection & Growth

• The Kindness Cruise will be an eight-day experience on the brand-new Norwegian Aqua, sailing in December.
• It’s designed for people who want to recharge, immerse themselves in kindness-focused discussions, and connect with like-minded individuals.
• Activities include group dinners, guided workshops, and opportunities to reflect on and amplify kindness in life and business.

🔷 Why It Matters: This is an opportunity for people to step away from their routines, find their “ah” moments, and return home with a renewed sense of purpose and connection.